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I need advice?

So, I'm all over the place with my feelings in life right now.  At the moment I'm really sad because my boys (Portugal) just lost in Euro 2008.  I really thought they could make a run at the championship this year, but unfortunately they had to face a really good German team.  So, now just for the sake of fun and games, I have to pick someone else to root for.  I really like the Netherlands and Ruud Van Nistelroy, but I have to root for the Germans because they have the best name in the whole tournament on they're team...Are you ready for this...Bastian Schweinsteiger!!!  I wish my name was that cool...oh well I guess you can't win them all.

I have to give myself a shout out, because I called the Celtics winning the NBA Championship...AND THEY DID!!!  Congrats to them and I'm so happy that I am able to Live in L.A. when the Boston Celtics came in and DESTROYED them in game six.  Redemption is sweet. 

What else?  I got new headshots a couple of weeks ago.  I'll put some of them up so that you guys can have a look at them.  These aren't the ones I've chosen to use, but it gives you an idea.

   

So, let's do a little role reversal here, I need some advice from all of you.  I just recently broke up with a girl that was dating for about two months.  I know it wasn't a long time, but at the same time there were still lots of feelings involved.  We haven't spoken since(which was two weeks ago) because we wanted to let all the feelings simmer down before/if we try to make a friendship work.  I tried to be honest with her and let her know how I was feeling, but I think she's pretty upset.  I told her I wouldn't call her until she was ready and called me, so I'm kinda stuck.  I still feel like it was the right thing to end the relationship, but I still feel pretty bad.  What do you think I should do?

Thanks for your help I really appreciate it.

Only published comments... Jun 19 2008, 03:21 PM by kevin
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Comments

 

TeenStar said:

Sounds like you weren't really into her in the romance dept. so I think it is best you were truthful. Better to end it now than drag it on and lead her on too.

I dunno... once you cross the line from friends to more than friends, it' kinda hard to go back, especially since the one who got dumped probably still has feelings.

In the end, even though she may never call you, she will appreciate your honesty!

The ball's in her court. Go live your life.

:)

June 19, 2008 7:52 PM
 

fabio said:

Hey Kevin,

I like your new headshots.  Lots of different looks.  That is super cool.  The one in the glasses is by far my favorite.   So much personality.

As for the girl..... I say leave it be.  If she doesn't want to call, she doesn't want to call.  If you call her, it may send a message that you feel differently than you do.  Remember, girls usually get more emotionally attached quicker and take longer to get over things.  USUALLY.  My sister is not that way, and there are others.

Hope that helps.  Hope to see you soon on a shoot day.

Fab

June 21, 2008 11:09 AM
 

Cali Girl said:

It's not weird that she hasn't called.

She's the one that got dumped so she probably doesn't want to seem needy or pathetic. Or maybe she simply doesn't have anything to say.

It's seems a little strange that the dumper is wondering why the dumpee hasn't called. Usually it works the other way around. If your wondering and worrying about why she hasn't called, I'd think a bit about why you feel that way. Were you hoping or expecting her to call by now? Does some part of you miss her? Are there things that you still want to say?

If you told her you wouldn't call then don't, but if you're worrying about it then maybe you should.

Again. She'll appreciate your honestly.

that was long. But there's a girl's opinion.

June 24, 2008 3:37 PM
 

kevin said:

Thank you guys so much for your advice.  I love the ole switcharoo with you guys giving me advice instead of the other way around.  

I'm not wondering why she hasn't called.  I was just curious if I handled it the right way.  I'm still confident that I made the right choice, I'm just not good at this kind of stuff.  I HATE hurting people and I really hated hurting her or making her feel bad.  So, I'm not questioning if I did the right thing, I just hope she's doing well.  It was more my concern to make sure I handled it right than anything else.

Thanks so much though.  You guys are awesome.

June 24, 2008 4:02 PM

About kevin

So here's a little about me. I'm from Colorado Springs, CO...woohoo. I came out to L.A. three years ago to pursue my passion that is acting. I know...I'm one of those kids that is always in the spotlight. What can I say, I enjoy it. My family is the most important thing to me. I have a large family with three brothers, a sister, three sister's in law, a brother in law, a mom, a dad, 8 nieces and nephews, and 1 more on the way! It's crazy, but I love em. I love L.A. with all the good and bad things out here. It's a challenging city, but there's also a ton of opportunity out here as well. I love sports(football, basketball, baseball, golf, frisbee, tennis) you name it I follow it. I also love being out doors. Camping, hiking climbing, fishing...anything to get me outside is what I love. Well that's me in a nut shell. You can find out more about me in the "Meet The Hosts" section on the Advice Lounge page!

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