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Teen girl killed in wreck

Another sad but true story about the death of a teenager.

Stories like these are becoming more and more common these days. As the President of Teenfaze.com, it is my personal goal to empower teens to make better decisions and choices especially when it comes to destructive social behavior and pressure from peer groups. Real, true blue friends will NOT pressure you into doing things for the sake of popularity or acceptance. And if they get mad at you for not participating or say you aren't in the "cool" group, then basically they are telling you that because you wont put your life at risk or chance getting into trouble then they don't want to hang out with you.

I ask you..... what kind of "friend" is that?

REALITY CHECK:

Henderson teen girl killed in wreck

Sat, Nov 15, 2008 (4:02 p.m.)

A 15-year-old Henderson teenage girl was killed about 11:30 p.m. Friday when she was thrown from a white pickup truck that flipped, Henderson Police said.

A white Chevrolet Silverado truck with one teen driving and three others as passengers lost control near Grand Hills and Villa Barolo, police said.

The driver lost control and went off the road, police said. The white pickup flipped. The teenage girl died at the scene, police said.

Three other teens were taken to local hospitals, police said.

The white pickup had been racing with a red Ford F250 truck, police said. The teen driver of the red pickup was arrested for DUI alcohol, police said.

The Clark County coroner's office will release the dead teenage girl's identity, police said.

I'm incuding some of the comments that go with this story. They are by concerned parents and others:

This is the phone call all parents dread. There are no words. These are all great kids striving to grow up too quickly. Parents please, please set stricter boundaries, or check to see the boundaries you have set are being respected. While both drivers may not have been drinking, most of the kids at that party were. This is typical of the "fun" they have every weekend. I know all of these kids and their grief today is tribute to their families and to their character. A tragic accident. This young girl was lovely and my heart goes out to her family.

Posted by mom

Too many kids are getting wrong messages about how to have fun and lack of consequences. They (the kids) are getting "off the hook" too easy. Both of these drivers must live with her death the rest of their lives. What about her family and friends. I cannot imagine how they can find the strength to forgive, but they must.

We all must crack down on this behavior -- both that of the kids and their parents. Lets see what his (driver's)dad has to say. I am sure its not going to be enough. No words can be enough. How many times must we get the lesson before it is learned and lived?

We are so sorry for her Mom and Dad. God Bless.

Posted by Simplydad

What is scarry about this situation is all of these student (from Coronado) just went through "Every 15 Minutes". The almost exact sinario was played out. The students seemed affected by the program, but sadly, not enough. I have two students at Coronado. My children are not in what we call the popular group (going to parties) but are well known. Students put others down if they are not in their "Group" and teens so badly want to be part of the group. The pressures young teens put on each other to be cool or accepted is too much! My heart breaks for the mom and dad and family of Olivia. There are no words that can make it right! Please know that there are many parents praying for you and your family. My daughter had classes with Olivia since the 7th grade at Miller and had many wonderful things to say about how sweet and caring she was. All I have left to say is God Bless Olivia and her family.

Posted by Windmill 

 You can read the full story here as it appears on the Las Vegas Sun website.

Please..... use your head and make good choices!

Sincerely,
Darren Polish
President of Teenfaze.com

Only published comments... Nov 16 2008, 12:02 PM by Admin7

Comments

 

tmarie said:

I'm not sure from where you get these facts or how well you understand the circumstances of this tragic accident.

1. The driver of the vehicle Olivia was riding in had not been drinking. The other driver had a blood alcohol level of .02. While this is not normally considered a DUI for an adult, the consumption of any liquor by a minor will result in arrest.

2. There was no planned drag race. They both left a party and coincidental met on the road. Both drivers exceeded the 25 m.p.h. speed limit and one could not maintain control at a sharp curve. The driver of the second vehicle, was aware of the curve ahead and slowed down accordingly, leaving his vehicle a significant distance from the vehicle ahead which Olivia was riding in. Tragically her driver lost control. Therefore speed was a factor, alcohol was not.

3. The driver of the second vehicle and the two passengers watched in fear, hoping the car ahead of them could correct, but unfortunately could only run to their aid.

4. The driver of the second vehicle (the one with a .02 alcohol level) is certified in search and rescue and proceeded to help Olivia and the other three occupants out of the vehicle, immediately after calling 911. Alcohol was not a factor in this accident, just inexperienced drivers.

I have heard from many sources over the weekend that both of these drivers are devastated by Olivia's death, just as many of her friends are. While the appropriate disciplines should and will be disseminated, no punishment exists that will adequately answer for this loss. Let us not lose sight, that these are young teenagers, newly licensed. The parents must accept their responsibilities as parents. And what of the unsupervised parties which occur every weekend. If alcohol is served or available at these homes, then it appears others may also have to accept responsibility, or better yet make some changes.

Let us just keep in mind that neither of these boys believe they should not be held accountable, and all reports thus far suggest that if allowed to determine their own punishment, their suggestion at this point would be maximum sentences.

Olivia's parents are suffering beyond words, and knowing Olivia there is no doubt that she would not want anyone, including her friends to suffer. If even one life will be saved by this devastation, I can only imagine Olivia would be smiling.

November 16, 2008 6:46 PM
 

Admin7 said:

The article is as it appears on the Las Vegas Sun website, as reported by Mary Manning.

I have based my post upon many stories I have read dealing with the increasing number of teen accidents due to unfortunate circumstances.

This post is intended to create awareness to teens out there who feel pressured into participating in situations they may not deem safe or instigate them for acceptance from their peers.

I thank you for your input.

November 16, 2008 7:26 PM

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